Tuesday, 7 May 2013

Reflection : Ng choon wee

Do you ever find yourself speaking up too soon ? 
Yes sometimes i do find myself to speak up too soon , perhaps out of anxiety.  

If so , how can you clear your mind to fully listening ? 
Do not focus on the things that are not related to the question or the topic that you are listening temporarily.

Do you ever find yourself wanting to jump in because you are eager to share ? 
Yes i do

How can you channel your excitement into listening and wait for the proper opportunity to share ?
Channel that excitement into attention. We should focus our attention on them when they are talking about and listen to them. Pay attention to what they are saying. 

What else can you do to prepare for conversations with others ? 
Think of what to say before the start of the conversation. Think it through and make sure it is appropriate.

Can we ask them up front what they are looking for ? (advice , a sounding board , solutions ) 
Yes , in that case we can get to understand their situation and get to understand them better  

How does it make you feel to be cut of in the middle of your thoughts ? 
Sometimes it is irratating and rude. I think that the person is not listening to what i am saying. 

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